i mean its not what we want, but his reasons makes sense. there's no point marrying someone who doesn't even know if they love you.
hopefully rejection will be what he needs in order to realise his feelings. although now i think the alcohol has that part covered...

you have got to be kidding me, I want to 😑 too. guy admits he has no idea what love would feel like and that he was alway curious about you and wanted to spend time with you - the beginnings of love - and you reject him. what an idiot...

It's a trap! He just wants you to take him home!